It’s Late on Monday but it is Monday! Whew Hew and God bless you!!
I want to talk to my ladies today. (Men folks, we will talk about y’all next week. Hang there with me this week ok?) It took me a long time to write because I ran around like a nut this weekend! But……here it is from my heart to yours.
Gen 1:27 | So God created man in his [own] image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. |
Women we have lost the purpose of our beauty. (And hear me, every woman is beautiful!!) Our beauty is meant to be a reflection of the beauty of God. We are meant to call people back into remembrance of God’s gentleness, grace, love, passion, sweetness, care, etc. We are mobile monuments to His heart.
That being said, Why is it that so many women hide their beauty? I’m guilty too. I wore supper baggy clothes throughout most of my high school years; overate frequently; never learned to wear make up; and dressed horribly for my body type for a long time. I was hiding and suspect that I am not alone. I knew that men were attracted to beauty and women were jealous of it. So I hid; I crouched in hopes that if I did not shine at all, somehow I would be treated with respect and not lust; acceptance and not competition. All my hiding never worked. And if you are hiding, in weight; in clothing; in food; in horrible men or whatever, it won’t work fo you either. (You always get what you fear. Ask yourself, “Is what I’m doing making the situation any better?”) I was running from lust and rejection but guess what kept coming to me,…lust and rejection because I was unintentionally building my life around them by changing me, neglecting me, anything me to avoid them. They were my focus. When I began to focus on the beauty of God’s holiness. He began by restoring mine.
He showed me that my beauty was not to be ignored, crouched down, or destroyed. He wants us to be beautiful and to remember that other folk’s reactions to you belong to them not us. That is their stuff. It is on their plate let them eat it. Stop choking on the negative looks, comments, body language, treatment and biases. Stop trying to crouch down and be less beautiful than you are. Be You To the Fullness (Bea u ti ful, get it? :-)) When you are you, the fullness of you (Skinny you, Curvaceous you, Fat you, Tall you, Tiny you, Dark you, Pale you, just You you), you bring God glory and that is the essence of worship. See our beauty, embraced and cherished by us, as a reflection of God is a hidden form of worship. (Now hold up heretic hunters, I am not saying worship ourselves but instead thank the Giver for the gift and take care of it. Love His child because He does.) Love you, lady. Honor His love for you by being good to you. Appreciate what He calls beautiful. No one should ever take a Master artist work and try to trash it. (Hint: God’s an artist, look at the Grand Canyon! And He definitely put more love it to you than that breath-taking hole in the ground.) Be good to His treasure and the earthen vessel that bares it. Stop crouching and stand in the light intended for you. Give Him glory. Nelson Mandela said it this way:
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
In the end if we deny our beauty. We die to the full destiny of who we are created to be. Be You To The Full!
(What does this have to do with singleness or married life. If you are crouching as a single, you have not fully accepted the gift and if you are crouching as a married, you, the real you, is not in the relationship.)
I’m done with the soap box for this week. I’m on to the men next week!
Art Auction Update:
Therosia raised a total of about $500 between online, private donations and the art auction. She was invited to return the following month to another art show to display her work and perform poetry. (Check her out at http://www.youtube.com/TrueTherosia ) The amount raised was only 1/3 of what was needed. However, a grant of $500 for those denied financial aid was awarded to her by email on the day of the art auction bringing her up to $1000 and paying her classes off in total. Praise Jesus!!! God is on time because she starts classes tomorrow!
The remaining 1/3 is to pay for books. So keep praying for her and if you want to continue to promote or donate; her website for donations is: http://www.youcaring.com/fundraiser_details?fundraiser_id=7383&url=therosiastuition .
God bless. No stress. Feel free to comment. See you all next Monday and thank you for reading. Have a great week!!
Life, Love and Learning to You,
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